Passive Aggression is Not the Move

Because so many people think this is appropriate behavior I'm putting it all on blast right now...it's 2025, I'm a big girl with a busy life and I don't owe anyone anything! 

So let me be clear: I hate passive-aggressive, indirect communication. Always have, always will. If you have something to say, then say it. Address it directly. Posting cryptic, snarky things on social media because you're upset is not only immature, but it's also downright infuriating.

For far too long, I lived with this kind of behavior—navigating the emotional landmines of someone who couldn't just say what was on their mind. It's exhausting, it's manipulative, and it's a major red flag that I refuse to overlook anymore.

This isn’t how grown adults should communicate. If there's an issue, let’s talk about it like adults. But if your first move is to be petty and indirect, then we have a bigger problem.

I think it's time for me to reevaluate some relationships because tolerating this kind of behavior is no longer on my to-do list. Grown-ass adults should be able to communicate with clarity and respect, and I won't settle for anything less anymore.

If you can't be straightforward, I’ll gladly let you play that game on your own—just know I’m not interested in participating.

🥺🫖 - JRT

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